What exactly is the "Law Of Attraction" ? Does it really work ? Some people will tell you it's all rubbish, other will tell you it really does work. I'm one of those people.
It has changed my life, or rather me. You see, it's all about being positive. If you're negative, people around you will be negative. How come ?
How do YOU feel when standing next to someone who only tells you the negative things which are happening in his/her life ? You may perhaps stay and start talking about the negative things in your own life.
What does this tell you about yourself ? A person talking negative and you reply with negativity. But what does that bring to your life ? Does that change your life for the better ? It's more likely to make you pounder about the negative things you've talked about with this person. And it will pull you further down, 'cause it confirms to yourself things are indeed negative.
Now, when standing next to someone who smile, says hello with a smile. You can not help but feel the positivity radiating from that person. Someone who talks about the good things in life, will make you feel good. In return, you will want to share the postivie thoughts.
Thinking aobut positive things, will make you smile a lot more. You will remember the good things which happened. It will bring more happiness into your life. Simply put : you'll feel better. What effect has that on your life ? When feeling better, you're less likely to have stress, you'll be dealing with stress in a completely diffirent way.
Things will look more positive and you'll find a way to achieve the goal or target you want to achieve.
My wife used to ask me something to do and I thought about : "no, this cann't" be done". The word "no" projects : negativity. When you react negative, you will get negativity. I always thought I was simply being practical. However I admit I was indeed being negative ! One day I attracked nothing but negativity. And that's when things start to go wrong.
By saying : "I don't know how, but I'll see" or "I'll check what I can do"... you'll be concentrating towards the solution. And you'll find one. Perhaps not the one which is expected, but at least you'll give it a go and you've done your best. And in return you'll get appreciation.
Two diffirent answers, two diffirent outcomes. You get what you think, you attrackt what you radiate.
Thinking positive will change your life, as it will change completely the way you act. You think about something you would like, you'll find a way to achieve it.
Someone once said : "Aim for the Stars, you may get halfway." You set a goal, you visualise your goal and see you're reaching it. This again makes you feel good and will motivate you ever more.
It is all about feeling good with yourself and knowing and feeling you WILL get there. Being negative will not change the situation.
Once I said :
"Problems are created by people. There is only a situation, which you can change.
For example, you go by car from point A to point B. Suddenly there's a tree in the middle of the road blocking the way. Three actions can be taken :
1 - You get out of the car, assess the situation, see how you can move the tree and move on.
There even be someone passing, whom you can ask for help.
2 - It can happen the tree can not be moved, too big or you cann't move it yourself. You go back to the car and try to find an alternate route.
3 - You get out of the car look a the tree, sit down and say to yourself : I'm stuck. This is creating a problem.
It may all seem so simple, but it isn't. We all make our choices, but when thinking more positive, we'll think more solution wise.